DO NOT… I repeat… DO NOT go over to a man’s house for a first date.
And stop getting involved with men who never actually take you anywhere.
If when he first gets involved with you he asks you to “come to his crib” or he asks to go to your place, just drop him ladies. This guy does not even have the respect to understand women should be in a safe(public) environment when first getting to know a guy. This may seem small but it actually hints to the guy’s mentality. He doesn’t respect traditional values, he will likely expect sex sooner and not value commitment. The beginning is the time that you and a guy should be trying to impress each other. If he is not trying to impress you he does not think highly of you or your potential in his life.
Don’t believe me? Test it out. Observe the values between a guy who just wants to “hang out” with one who asks to “take you out”. Their objectives will be different and the way he treats you will also be different.
There once was a time where a man or woman “coming inside” was a big deal, a symbol of trust and the advancement in a relationship. Now we go inside too soon and there’s a society of broken homes to show for it.
Ladies we have to raise our standards. Men will only raise theirs if they are forced to meet the bar we set. If you are giving your time and your body away freely with nothing to show for it why should he do anything different if he can get all he wants without doing anything? Let that marinate.
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